Mothers are the best secret keeper and kiss expert for their kids.

In the journey of Mom’s be everything today we reach the letter “K”. Mothers are our first keeper of secrets, maybe till we find that secret friend for life. Also, moms are the best kiss expert. As soon as we hold our babies for the first time, the first thing is we cuddle and kiss them isn’t it? Mother’s kiss and touch are what give warmth to the child for life.
The life of a modern woman, whether she is working or single, a mother or a wife, is multi-faceted. In addition to the above, there are several other tiny responsibilities that women tend to take on, which are often overlooked and not accounted for. For instance, doubling up as an electrician in case a bulb goes kaput or sending the car in for maintenance. Additionally, considering the fact that managing homes and children is a full-time gig without any paid holidays, overtime compensation, or day-offs to show for, this feat seems even more remarkable.

She knows your heart better than anyone.

K – Keeper of Secrets

Shh, I won’t tell… Though a mother-daughter relationship can be confusing at times, it is an unbreakable bond with empathy, loyalty, caring, and unconditional love. While my mother was the last person I’d go to for boyfriend advice, but she has kept secrets for life. Don’t we feel good when our kids confide in us? Mom knows how to protect her children. She won’t gossip or share it and it’s well kept forever. Mothers are our first keeper of secrets and first protector too.

The world is not as forgiving as our mothers or we as mothers are. Not many people will take or accept your flaws but a mother will. She might judge but in the long run mother is non-judgemental. She has ample unconditional love which lies deep in the heart of a mother. Many a time we may have our differences too, but haven’t we confided in her in our growing years always.

Most people in life might not be reliable, be it when we have aced failures, failed relationships, taxing friendships, and unreasonable bosses. In all these, moms are the most reliable keepers, we just need to believe in them.

From our crushes to our most treasured secrets, our moms know everything. Still, they manage to keep them as a secret from our siblings, our father, and the rest of the world. I may sound secretive but tell me truly haven’t you experienced it yourself. She won’t tell any of your other friends your secrets.

Mothers are our first keeper of secrets
Kiss and Hugs Expert

Ahh, do I say anything more to this? The moment we hold our kids in our hands and touch them we become an expert in kissing. Touching and kissing our own flesh and blood, bonds us with our kids. It’s the special warmth we share. All the moms will surely agree that the moment they laid eyes on their precious little gift, they embraced them. They welcomed them with a cuddle and a kiss. It’s the natural response towards a loved one. It’s safe to say that a baby’s soft, chubby cheeks are tempting to look at from a distance! as much as this seems to annoy them, it is actually scientifically proven that kissing a baby is more important than most think.

This is the letter “K” in the journey of motherhood where we explore Mom’s roles in their children’s lives. Mom’s are everything for her kids, you name it and we play that role. Do read my earlier letters to enjoy the AtoZ of motherhood roles. This post is written as a part of the A2Z challenge, organized by Blogchatter. You will surely love to read how Mothers are best jugglers and a judge too.

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24 Responses

  1. Moms, their kiss, their warmth, their touch; everything is divine! your posts are one of my favorites and I salute all mothers again.

  2. Daisy Bala says:

    Kiss and hug expert! Loved the idea and truly mom’s are our stress busters. A hug and a kiss are worth a million medicines that cant take away our pain!

  3. Aww… yes they(we) are forgiving like no one else. They(we) can keep our(their) secrets forever. And hugs and kisses……no one can match the intensity of their(our) affection in doing so. Loved reading this (love)ly post.

  4. Varsh says:

    Mother-child relationship is based on trust and faith and what better than loads and loads of kisses to celebrate it! And secrets, well, we absorb everything,don’t we? Hope our kids continue confiding in us as they grow up too.

  5. Ruchi nasa says:

    Best secret keepers ever

  6. Deepika says:

    So beautifully put. Of course we tell our moms everything well almost, and know its safe with them and the way you wrote about kissing and embracing made my heart melt

  7. Keeps her secret! hell yes. moms dont share the hard part but share the joy! so true

  8. Deepti Menon says:

    Mothers are such wonderful people. Every virtue abounds in them. The goodness of the Universe is in them.

  9. Roma says:

    Aaww this ones my favorite job, a kids and a hug expert, smiling as always

  10. Harjeet Kaur says:

    I am amazed by the qualities you are pulling out from ur magic hat! Keeper of secrets–Yes of course. My daughter would ask me not to tell her dad if she scored anything less than 10/10 🙂
    Hug and kiss my babies all the time. The unconditional love that kids have is so precious.

  11. matheikal says:

    Wow! Moms are the sweetest.

  12. Swati Mathur says:

    Oh yes do true..every time I read your blog post.. I miss my mom even more and this one especially.. Secret keeper… Well I am too good in keeping secrets especially when your daughter is a teenager 🤫😉

  13. yes yea mothers are kiss and hug expert. the kiss and hug have magical power to bring a flow of positive emotions instantly. nothing could be more enjoyable for moms to give a loving hug and kiss to their kids.

  14. Aditi Kapur says:

    So sweet ❤️ mothers are kiss and hugs expert and no one comes near. Mom’s love is eternal we are blessed with!

  15. I agree… when i think of it, mom knew me better than dad during my childhood.

  16. Ruchi Verma says:

    Moms are always the best and yes, I agree they are the best person to keep your secrets!!

  17. Hugs and kisses yes… I am always there but keeping secrets, I am not a master at it. I end up sharing it with my husband which sometimes annoy my elder one.

  18. I love sharing my secrets with my mother after my marriage. She also listens to me attentively, like never. great post

  19. Yay! the best secret keeper in the whole world is the moms only. Even the doctor believes that mom’s touch has magic; that’s why skin-to-skin touch has become the best therapy for newborn babies to regulate their blood circulation.l

  20. Kiss and hugs from mom definitely blift us up and give solace. Keeper of secret is my favourite role

  21. Jyoti says:

    Yes yes we are secret keepers . Kiss and hugs definitely lifts up the mood . I have also written about same in my last post .

  22. Pratibha P says:

    Even though the boys drive me up the wall at times, I know that I am blessed to have them in my life! Keeper of secrets yes! Kisses, bring them on! As I tell my boys, even if you turn 50, I will still kiss and cuddle you!

    • PraGun says:

      Agree, boys drive us mad, still, they are the best thing that has happened to us. Stay blessed dear.
      My elder one now shows tantrums for kissing but moms will be moms. hahaha

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